Thanks for the post. We are glad that you found our community, but we are sorry that it is under these circumstances! It sounds like you are really having a time with your arborvitaes. I know that they can be temperamental in different soil types. The Leyland Cypress on the other hand will grow about anywhere. That one may be a good choice it you decide to replace. I have a couple of questions because I want to be on the same page. With the arborvitae that you currently have, are they still green at all? I know you said they are thinning out, are they loosing their needles? Also, what do you mean my falling over? Are they just tilting, or are they actually coming out of the ground? Let me know. I might (or someone else in the community might) be able to offer some advice on the arborvitaes if you are wanting to keep them around.
Thanks,
bryan-nhn